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i forgot to mention this yesterday. it broke my heart.
apparently, my grandfather had been asking about where his dad was, who died over twenty years ago.
and playing peek-a-boo.
my dad and uncle definitely inherited Grandpa's gift of denial.
apparently, my grandfather had been asking about where his dad was, who died over twenty years ago.
and playing peek-a-boo.
my dad and uncle definitely inherited Grandpa's gift of denial.
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Date: 2005-12-07 01:45 pm (UTC)*Ponders*
It cannot be easy to watch someone die, especially someone who was essentially one's father.
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Date: 2005-12-07 04:55 pm (UTC)even if they had lived around here, i'd think it was more of a brain disorder. then again, i'm very skeptical about These Things.
not that i'm not still fascinated by cemetaries and stories of "ghosts", Mister Tomb-Dweller ;)
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Date: 2005-12-07 11:08 pm (UTC)Actually, that version of what my last name means is false. In recent years, I've been a big fan of it being translated as "of the Count" just because it is a more interesting story.
*Winks*
I was just offering a theory, the possibility that your grandfather's memories might be revisiting him. He may be seeing people like his parents or others who have been dead for years. Actually, I remember reading about older folks needing a great amount of time dedicated to recalling the distant events of their lives. It is something of the mind's way of preparing for the end of a lifetime.
Not all spectres need to be supernatural in origin.
*Hugs*
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Date: 2005-12-08 12:32 pm (UTC)